Married or not you should read this..

I found this article on the net and i was touched by the story. Its true, sometimes we overlook about our relationship (husband & wife) because of our busy working life and busy raising our children. Once a while, please go out for dating..Only both of you and try to find some one that can help you taking care of your kids. :)

I copied over the article here, as a reminder for me as well. This is about other people story and i could'nt imagine if it happen to me (Nauzubillah - God, please avoid this).

When I got home that night my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking about divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Credit to avmediastudio.com

Resepi Sticky Caramel yang sedap & simple

Last last weekend kitaorang takda agenda pape.. So makan tidur makan tidur aje.. dah ptg pas asar rasa boring sangat2.. xtau nk buat ape..Nak layan 'The Heirs' cite korea pon dah abis tgk dan tak sabar nk tunggu next episod.. Nak ajak Mr. Ajim keluar dia demam plak.. So mula aku terpikir nak masak la..

Tapi nk masak ape eh?? nk masak yg senang, simple & cpt..

Tetiba aku teringat kat cerita mak pasal anak buah sulung aku Adam yang gila kat chicken wing orang jual kat dpn umah dia tuh.. So ape lagi mula la men'google' resepi..

Aku ingat kan kene bakar or buat mcm BBQ tuh..rupa2 nya mcm2 version pon ada.. Ada yg masak guna oven je, bakar atas arang ala2 bbq tuh & ada yg guna kuali je.. Tapi bila tgk hasil2nya aku decide nk go for yg kuali punya sesuai la ngn moto aku td yg senang, simple & cpt..

So terus g carefour/aeon big ampang ngn MIL aku.. Since weekend Mak Busu selalu dtg tgk nenek..so aku borong skali banyak chicken wing tuh.. Xsilap dlm 25 ketul.

Ok lai2 tgk bahan2 nye.. Resepi ni aku dh alter sket ikut barang2 yang ada kat dapur aje ye..

Resepi asal korang leh tgk kat sini.

Bahan-bahan ( 24 keping )

·         12 keping kepak ayam (belah dua jadi 24) – aku x belah,malas! :)

·         2 sudu besar minyak masak

·         3 ulas bawang putih - diketuk dengan kulitnya sekali (tak perlu kupas)

·         1 sudu besar halia dicincang

·         1 sudu besar sos ikan – substitute dgn sos tiram

·         1 sudu besar kicap – tuang aje kicap tuh tak sukat2 pon

·         1 sudu besar sos cili - tuang aje kicap tuh tak sukat2 pon

·         1/4 cawan (60ml) madu – kurangkan sket sbb manis sangat nnt
      Lada hitam - aku tambah sikit
      Serbuk cili - aku tambah sikit nak kasi pedas

Cara-Cara :-

1. Tumis bawang putih & halia. Masukkan chicken wings, kacau, goreng dan tutup kuali sekejap selama 5 min.

2. Masukkan semua sos & madu gaulkan dan tutup kuali semula. Kacau sekali sekala dlm 30-1jam atau sehingga masak dan browned (bersalut dgn sos). Pada pendapat aku agak lama jgk nk tunggu chicken wings ni jd browned mcm ala2 yg org jual tuh..So aku gunakan api medium heat & tutup kuali. Setiap kali bukak penutup kuali tuh, ramai la yg dtg menjenguk dapur sebab bau dia sedap sgt..hahaha

3. Nota : Madu akan berbuih2 bila dah di masak..Jangan risau kalau tengok sos & madu tuh mcm hangit je towards the end.  

Pada aku okok ajela rasanya sbb madu tuh byk sangat jadi sangat2 la manis..next time leh kurangkan lagi madu tuh..tapi sape yg suka manis ok la kot... Tapi org yg makan punya review kata sedap!  Owh dan juga next time kene lagi lama la msk nye biar cantik sket rupa chicken wings ni..Ini kes nk cpt tuh yang cukup setakat  dh jadi aje.. Overall i akan repeat cuba lagi yg terbaik..

So ape kate u olls try sendiri ye kalau nk tau sedap ke x..hihihi

Selamat mencuba!
 -Fiza-

Rahsia Ayat Pengasih Nabi Yusuf

Kawan2 jom kita amalkan ayat di bwh ni. Moga2 perhubungan kekeluargaan kita akan kekal selamanyaa..Ameen..

"Idz Qaala Yuusufu Li Abiihi Yaa Abati Inni Ra Aitu Ahada' Asyara Kaukabauw Wasy Syamsa Wai Qamara Ra aituhum Lii Sajidin"

Maksudnya: Ingatlah ketika Yusuf berkata kepada ayahnya,"Wahai Ayahku, sesungguhnya aku bermimpi melihat sebelas buah bintang, matahari dan bulan kelihatan semuanya sujud kepadaku..."

Kemudian sambung Surah Thaaha Ayat 39

"Wa-alqaytu 'Alayka Mahabbatan Minnii Walitushna' 'Alaa 'Ainii"

Maksudnya: "Dan aku telah melimpahkan kepadamu kasih sayang yang datang dariku, dan supaya kamu diasuh di bawah pengawasanku."

Bacalah kedua ayat ini setiap kali bertemu atau bersua dengan kekasih/isteri/suami. Untuk mendapatkan kesan yang baik, hendaklah diamalkan selalu membaca dihadapannya. Tidak perlu membaca dengan kuat, memadailah dengan hanya membaca di dalam hati. Selain itu agar dikasihi masyarakat, bacalah kedua-dua ayat ini setiap kali lepas solat sebanyak 3 kali.

Info Agama : Dajjal dan persiapan pengikut2 nya menyambut kedatangan Dajjal

Allahuakbar!! Allah Maha Besar & Maha Mengetahui!

Bila terbaca di fb pasal dajjal & persiapan pengikut2 dajjal sewaktu dia kuar nnt meremang bulu roma aku ni.. Tertanya2 jgk aku apekah persiapan kita umat islam seluruh dunia sewaktu binatang ini keluar kelak??? seramai 70,000 pengikut dia akan menentang Imam Mahadi. Kita mcm mane??

Masyallah, Ya Allah kau jauhilah aku serta keturunanku dari fitnah Dajjal laknatullah ini..

Video tuh you all bole tgk sendiri kat sini.

Disebabkan diaorg ni nk menakluki kota makkah & madinah, u all perasan x yg diaorg dh mula mengacau negara2 yg berada di sekeliling mekah & madinah.. Egypt dah bergolak sesama sendiri, sape yg untung???
Malaysia (sebuah negara islam yg maju)??? x bergolak ke??? dan sape yg untung???? Palestin xpyh cerita la satu dunia dah maklum ape yg berlaku kat sane..
Semua ni sbb ape?? satu je tujuan diaorg nk menakluki mekah & madinah..

Kenapa diaorg menyumbang kepada kekacauan malaysia wlpon malaysia jauh dr mekah?? korg pikir sebab ape??? sebab kita negara islam yg sedang maju! diaorg x suka tgk negara2 islam maju..

Kalau kat egypt dua puak muslims (syiah & sunni) dah bpecah belah.. adakah keadaan ini x sama dgn keadaan di msia?? serupa tapi x sama..siapa yg akan btepuk tangan dan mendabik dada?? pikir2kan..

yeee..back to the topic --> ini adalah persiapannnnn.. persiapannn org2 dajjal.. senang la nk laksanakn misi mereka nanti bila sesama muslims pon dh berpecah belah dan dah x kuat mcm dulu lagi..
Seram kan..aku berdoa sewaktu usiaku jangan lah aku harungi benda2 ni semua..

So jom kita sama2 mempersiapkan diri dgn mencari pengetahuan bagaimana ingin mengelakkan fitnah dajjal durjana ini..


Menjauhi Fitnah Dajjal..

Sumber : Di sini

Sebelum ini kita telah mengetahui serba sedikit perihal Al-Masih Ad-Dajjal Laknatullah yakni berkenaan dengan ciri-ciri Dajjal, tempat tinggal dan waktu kemunculannya. Jadi kali ini, saya akan berkongsi pula mengenai cara-cara untu menyelamatkan diri dari fitnah Dajjal yang sangat berat itu. Sebelum kita pergi lebih jauh, saya akan menyebutkan beberapa tanda kemunculan Dajjal.

Ada beberapa tanda dan peristiwa yang akan mendahului kemunculan makhluk yang dilaknat ini, antaranya ialah:

1.Berlakunya peperangan Armageddon (boleh rujuk post bertajuk Perang Akhir Zaman),yang mana selepas peperangan tersebut berlakunya kekeringan Sungai Euprates dan tasik Tiberia di Syam; begitu juga halnya dengan kebun kurma di negeri Baisan (di sempadan  Palestin dan Jordan). Oleh itu, apabila telah tercetus perang Dunia ke-3 (Armageddon), maka tunggulah kemunculan Dajjal yang semakin dekat.

2.Datangnya tahun-tahun kekeringan (tiada mata air), kemarau (tiada hujan), kelaparan, bencana-bencana, mahalnya harga barang-barang dan....berkurangnya agama manusia.

Sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud:
“...dan sesungguhnya sebelum keluarnya Dajjal adalah adanya tempoh waktu tiga tahun yang sangat sulit, dimana pada waktu itu manusia akan ditimpa kelaparan yang sangat, Allah SWT akan memerintahkan kepada langit pada tahun pertama supaya menahan sepertiga dari hujannya, dan memerintahkan kepada bumi supaya menahan sepertiga dari tanamannya. Kemudian Allah memerintahkan langit pada tahun kedua supaya menahan dua pertiga dari hujannya dan memerintahkan kepada bumi supaya menahan dua pertiga dari tumbuh-tumbuhannya. Kemudian pada tahun ketiga Allah memerintahkan kepada langit supaya menahan semua air hujannya lalu tidak menitiskan setitik air pun, dan Allah memerintahkan kepada bumi supayamenahan semua tanamannya, maka setelah itu tidak akan tumbuh satu tanaman hijaupun dan semua binatang berkuku mati, kecuali yang tidak dikehendaki oleh Allah SWT.” Kemudian para sahabat bertanya: “Dengan apakah manusia akan hidup pada masa itu?”, Baginda SAW menjawab: “Tahlil, takbir dan tahmid akan sama ertinya bagi mereka dengan makanan.”
(Hadis Sahih Riwayat Ibnu Majah, Ibnu Khuzaimah dan Hakim daripada Abu Umamah r.a.)

3. Justeru dapat diketahui bahawa Dajjal akan keluar setelah munculnya Imam Al-Mahdi dan setelah Al-Mahdi menghadapi beberapa peperangan di semenanjung Arab, Parsi, Rome dan Kostantin yang akan memakan masa beberapa bulan. Ini adalah kronologi tanda besar kiamat menurut pendapat Yusuf bin Abdullah Al-Wabil (1989) dalam bukunya yang berjudul “Asyratus Sa’ah”(Tanda-Tanda Kiamat).
Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a. katanya bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda,
“...Maka ketika mereka (Al-Mahdi dan pengikutnya) telah sampai di Syam (atau Syria-untuk berperang dengan kaum Rome dalam Malhamah Al-Kubra), keluarlah Dajjal...”
(Hadis Sahih Riwayat Muslim dan Al-Hakim)

Cara mengelak fitnah Dajjal Laknatullah.

Walaupun fitnah Dajjal begitu besar dan berat bagi kita, namun ianya hanya kecil di sisi Alllah SWT dimana Dajjal tiada kuasa terhadap kaum Muslimin. Oleh kerana itu, ketika Al-Mughirah Ibnu Syu’bah berkata:
“ Tidak seorang pun bertanya lebih banyak selain aku.” Rasulullah SAW bersabda kepadanya: “Apakah yang membuatkan kamu gelisah tentangnya? Sesungguhnya ia tidak akan membahayakan kamu.” Al-Mughirah berkata:“Wahai Rasulullah, mereka mengatakan bahawasanya Dajjal mempunyai (membawa) makanan dan minuman.” Baginda SAW bersabda: “Hal ini hanyalah kecil bagi Allah SWT.”
(Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim dalam Kitabul Fitan)

Rasulullah SAW juga telah mengajarkan kepada kita bagaimana cara untuk menyelamatkan diri dari fitnah Dajjal. Antaranya adalah:

1.Menghafal surah Al-Kahfi atau sepuluh ayat yang di awalnya atau sepuluh ayat di akhirnya. Bahkan orang yang menghafal tiga ayat sahaja di awal surah Al-Kahfi akan terjaga dari fitnah Dajjal. Dalam sebuah hadis daripada Abu Darda’ r.a. bahawa Nabi SAW telah bersabda:

10 ayat pertama surah Al-Kahfi:

10 ayat terakhir surah Al-Kahfi:

“ Barangsiapa yang menghafal 10 ayat dari awal surah al-Kahfi, maka ia akan terjaga dari fitnah Dajjal.”

(Riwayat Muslim, Ahmad, Abu Daud dan Tirmizi)

Maka barangsiapa yang ditakdirkan oleh Allah untuk melihat Dajjal hendaklah dia meludahi mukanya, “Seakan-akan ia adalah Khinzib, iaitu syaitan pengganggu solat” dan hendaklah dia membaca ayat-ayat awal atau akhir dari Surah Al-Kahfi, semoga Allah menyelamatkannya dari Dajjal.

2.Selalu menjaga doa yang di suruh Rasulullah SAW supaya membacanya pada akhir setiap kali solat (setelah membaca tahiyyat akhir) iaitu:

Maksudnya;
“Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku berlindung kepadamu dari azab neraka jahannam dan dari azab kubur, dari fitnah hidup dan mati dan buruknya fitnah Al-Masihuddajjal.”

Barangsiapa yang berlindung kepada Allah, maka Allah akan melindunginya dan barangsiapa yang menjaga doa ini tantu Allah SWT juga akan menjaganya.

3.Barangsiapa yang mendengar kemunculan Dajjal hendaklah ia berlindung di Kota Madinah atau Makkah kerana kedua-dua negeri itu tidak akan dapat dimasuki oleh Dajjal.

  4.Barangsiapa yang tidak mampu melakukan tiga perkara diatas, hendaklah dia lari dari berhadapan dengan Dajjal kerana ia tidak akan membahayakannya dengan tetap berzikir dan berdoa.



Semoga kita mendapat manfaat daripada apa yang ana kongsikan ini serta dapat menyampaikannya kepada umat Islam yang lain. Wallahua’lam..

Sumber: “Perang Armageddon dan Kedatangan Imam Mahdi a.s.”, Satu kajian perbandingan antara Al-Quran,Al- Hadis, Taurat dan Injil.
Karya Amin Muhammad Jamaluddin
Buku terbitan Pustaka Syuhada.



Note : Jom kita print doa ni dan surah ni letak di sisi waktu sembahyang kalo x hafal.. mula2 mmg x hafal tp bila dh selalu baca insyallah kita akan ingat biar pon org mgelakkan aku sbb tgk kertas masa tahyat akhir.. :)

Dan aku selalu terpikir kenapa Alllah adakan dajjal di dunia ini?? Setiap kejadian itu pasti ada sebabnya..Sesapa yg tau sila bagitau saya ye..

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Semoga dakwah kecil sebigini mendapat balasan pahala dari Allah s.w.t.

Insan kerdil di sisi Allah,
Fiza

DIY : Mickey Mouse Themed Birthday Party FREE templates

I hosted a Mickey Mouse Themed Birthday Party for my son last week.
And I've decided to offer all the decorations that i created as free printables (PDF Format) instead of i keep all the decorations in my laptop and might forget about it later.

Please take note that all designs were made for my son birthday party purposes and using Microsoft words only. So any enhancement you can edit it by yourself that follow your needs.

Mickey Pants Birthday Banner

For mickey mouse themed party birthday banner you can get a lot of ideas from Google.
But most of them are in similar shape or design - Mickey Head! 
After discussed with my in law she mostly love to used the idea from this website. 
And so i just quickly design it using microsoft word and save it in PDF format.

For the Mickey Mouse Pants shape banner (1st layer)

Click here for FREE Mickey Mouse Pants Birthday Banner template!!!
(Size : half of A4 paper size)

For the mickey head shape (2nd layer) 

Click here for FREE Mickey Mouse Head Shape template  for birthday banner 

For the banner wording (3rd layer)

Click here for FREE birthday banner wording (without the name) 
(Font that i used : Waltograph font)

Print all the templates and cut it out. Take the mickey head shape template and glue it to the mickey pants shape banner. After that you take the banner wording and glue it on top of the mickey head. Punch hole on the pants and hang it out with any ribbon. Then stick it out on your wall with double sided tape and stick balloons on it to cover up the double sided tape and you are done! :)

Cupcake Topper

Click here for FREE Mickey Mouse Cupcake topper template!

Thank you tag

Tie or stapler the thank you tag to your favor bag

Click here for FREE Thank You Tag template!

Welcome signage

Click here for FREE welcome sign template!
(You can add in the birthday boy/girl's name on it)

Candy Jar Labels

Due to limited of time that im unable to design the candy jar labels, i search on the internet for the free printables and i found the awesome Mickey mouse set here. And i reused it on my way.

Click for FREE Candy Jar Labels template here!

Tengah Suka Lagu Ni

Mula2 aku dengar lagu ni aku mengelakkan ayat dia "Jika nanti aku yang harus pergi, ku terima walau sakit hati"..

Aku cakap hala3 kesiannye mamat ni.. 

Tapi setiap kali aku pergi balik kerja mesti aku dgr lagu ni kat radio.. Pastu terus minat plak..

Dan tak sangka la plak lagu ni jadi famous & org duk share2 kat fb..hahahaha 

Jom layan video dan juga lirik kat bawah tu..

Lirik Sandiwara Cinta – Republik

Aku tahu ini semua tak adil

Aku tahu ini sudah terjadi

Mau bilang apa aku pun tak sanggup

Airmata pun tak lagi mau menitis

Alasan yang sering kali ku dengar
Alasan yang sering kali kau ucap
Kau dengannya seakan ku tak tahu
Sandiwara apa yang telah kau lakukan kepadaku

Chorus

Jujurlah sayang aku tak mengapa
Biar semua jelas tak berbeda
Jika nanti aku yang harus pergi
Ku terima walau sakit hati

Mungkin ini jalan yang engkau mahu
Mungkin ini jalan yang kau inginkan
Kau dengannya seakan ku tak tahu
Sandiwara apa, ceritanya apa, aku tahu

Ulang Chorus 2x

Ku terima walau sakit hati

Riezqy is one yr old.

Today im so excited to share that my little boy is already 1 year old on 05.10.2013.
Yeay!!! Alhamdulilah, Im so gratefull to Allah that You give Riezqy a good health. Yes, that is more important than everything else now.

To me it is just not a matter of birthday but it means my baby is already reached over the critical age. For baby who is actually born with pre-matured or low birth weight history, the critical age will be until 1 year old. Means you must take a good care of your baby especially their health. No shopping mall, no cukur jambul for him as doc advise not to expose your baby to the crowd and etc. And even until now we still have appointment with his specialist. The hospital wont release your baby until they are 100% sure that your baby is in a good condition as well as their development.

And last saturday i hosted a birthday party for him to meet everyone.  Family, friends and some close relatives. I also want to expose him to the crowd (Kenduri/party) for the 1st time. And since he already reached 1 yr old, Mak already plan his cukur jambul next week together with Aqiqah for the 2012 babies (Kembar, Aisyah and Riezqy). Thanks Mak. Hope Mak sihat selalu and dipanjangkan umur. Dapat Mak tgk cucu-cucu mak masuk Uni nnt. Amin

Since im too excited, so i decided to have Mickey Mouse Birthday Party Theme for Riezqy.
All decorations and mickey ears i made it by myself (dlm hati so proud~! hahaha)
Ok jom tengok photo yg sempat di capture on that day. 

DIY - Simple Candy Buffet

Before the party started (mommy belom mandi lagi ni..hahaha)

Candy for the kids (i will update about this candy bar in the next post)

Family Photo :)

Birthday Boy - Riezqy

With Riezqy's cousins from both mami and papa side

Mami with doc to be - Nurul

Friends

 Org kuat : Thanx for helping me setting up the party.

 Birthday boy xd mood sbb ngntok..hihihi so crancky aje la ssh nk suh senyum..hihihi

Pic ni mmg klakar, ape psl sume muka mcm kne denda..hahhaaa

My dear Riezqy,

Your birthday takes us back to the day when you were born,

Like a little angel you opened your eyes, your beauty it adorned.

You looked at us and gave us a smile that was so divine,

Even in the darkness, your bright smile would shine.

Today when we look at you, the smile is still the same,

So are the lovely set of eyes, from heaven that came.

But even more than your physical beauty is your heart,

As for your mind it concerned, son you're ultrasmart!

Happy Birthday to our darling son, Muhammad Riezqy Awsam.

I love you my little son,

I dedicate the song by maher zain :  My little BOY to you..

I hope may Allah bless you, watch you and guide you forever. 

Because Mami cannot be with you all the times.

Though i am lacking, I will try my best to raise you good

To be better than me and your dad 

That one day you will also protect us when i'm getting older

Above of all, I LOVE YOU FOREVER, Mmuuahhh 

Parenting info : Otak Kanan - Teknik Jepun Shichida Methods

I've found very very great articles/information about kids education and would like to share it here for my friends and also for my own reference in the future.

This article i found in facebook and its in malay language. Due to limited of time i will just paste the articles here :-

Sumber : Kak Long Mie Facebook

Artike untuk parent and parent to be..

Subject: Otak Kanan - Teknik Jepun Shichida Methods...

Beberapa minggu lepas boss aku ada cakap kat aku yg dia antaq anak die 2 
thn pergi Sichida kelas...yakni kelas yg di uruskan oleh jepun melatih
anak-anak befikir menggunakan otak sebelah kanan. Otak sebelah kanan ni lebih
efektif sebenarmya dari otak sebelah kiri tetapi kena practise sikitlah 
penggunaannya. Kelas ni mahal,kalau kelas tadika juanna yg aku nak masukkan tahun depan tu cost nye lebih tinggi dari cost kite satu semester kat ITM, tapi boss aku ni atas kesedaran bahawa ramai sgt cine yang pergi kelas tu utk ajar anak2 depa dan melayu cuma setengah kerat aje...dia pun bersetuju ngan niat ikhlasnye untuk ajar aku dan staff melayu yg lain.

Aku pun nak korang practisekan bende ni kat anak korang, sebab baru
seminggu aku buat kat anak aku...dah nampak keberkesanannya. 

1. Sewaktu anak nak tidur atau tidur-tidur ayam, cakap kat die sepenuh
hati dan sejujurnya yang kita sayang kat dia, dia budak baik, dia anak
soleh, dia budak kuat, tak sakit, dia budak pandai dsb. Sbb during tidur-tidur ayam ni otak kanan sedang bekerja, otak kiri dah tidur dah, tapi kena buat seikhlas
hati...kalau tengah marah ..tak jadi. kalau anak korang tu dah tidur,
ramas-ramas jari atau tangan dia, macam picitlah supaya dia kembali berada 
dalam tidur2 ayam punya situation. Aku buat kat anak aku sebab die bangun
pagi lambat pas tu siap melalak-lalak lagi, aku cakap hari-hari kat dia, 
dia budak baik, dia suka pergi sekolah, dia budak sihat, dia nak bangun 
awal....sekarang 6.30 dah bukak mata termasuk sabtu n Ahad.

2. Start guna cards untuk ajar anak. Aku ajar ABC-Z guna card seminggu
je,sekarang dah kenal semua huruf dah siap boleh eja perkataan
pendek-pendek..buat card banyak-banyak dan tunjuk kat dia orang 
cepat-cepat..macam..a..b..c..d..e, insya Allah cepat die dapat sebab bila
kita tunjuk kad laju-laju atau cepat-cepat otak kanan die bekerja keras untuk tangkap apa benda yang kite tunjuk tu...kita boleh buat card 1,2,3, gambar-gambar...potonglah gambar kat mana-mana dsb.

3. Gerak kerja tangan adalah hasil dari otak kanan, so ajar anak korang
main tanah liat, main water colour, melukis, gunting kertas, origami dsb.
memang le kite yang kene mengemas tapi takpe....satu lagi cuba korang lukis gambar, contohnye rama2, tapi sebelah sahaja dan suruh die orang sambung lukis
ikut apa yg korang lukis tu kat sebelah lagi...ini pun dapat mengaktifkan penggunaan otak kanan....Korang tau kenapa cine, ngan jepun pandai-pandai....sebab depa makan guna chopstik...chopstik tu mengaktifkan kerja tangan and as well gerakkan otak kanan.

4. Jgn marah-marah atau tengking anak........sebab depa boleh simpan
semuanya dalam otak kiri....kalau termarah depa, pi balik kat cara no 1 
tadi, and mintak maaf kat die.....

5. Satu lagi develop they all punya imagination by start bercerita kat die
orang dan suruh depa sambung cerite tu, walaupun cerita tu memang lah
merapu takpa.....kita pun bukan tak biasa merapu.... 

6. Main teka-teki ngan they all, taruk satu barang dalam kotak tissue and
suruh depa teka apa benda tu. First few times boleh bagi option
macam....bagi tau colour, bunyi, lama-lama depa boleh develop six sence by concentrating depa boleh teka apa benda dlm kotak tissue tu........ni semua utk aktifkan otak sebelah kanan. Tapi ingat.....semua game yg hangpa nak buat ngan dia tu cuma boleh buat setengah jam sehari....tak payah lama-lama.

Sebelum buat exercise ni, kena tarik nafas dalam-dalam and relaks...tak
boleh buat time tengah nak masak ka, basuh kain ka tengok tv ka, tak
jadi....Buat kena ikhlas, and merendah diri sikitlah bila dah terror ini semua satu cara yng Tuhan lagi Maha Mengetahui kalau Dia izin anak kite nak pandai
Alhamdulillah tapi kita kena berusaha, dan bersyukur kalau dah berhasil sebab bila2 Dia boleh tarik balik..betui dak......Aku pun tengah try lagi ni... 

Lagi satu untuk berkongsi sesama pembaca....

Kaunselor UTM pun ada cakap benda yang sama dan dia
ada ckp ttg perkataan jangan kat anak-anak. kalau kita banyak sangat guna
perkataan jangan kat anak-anak.....itu lah yang anak akan buat.....so lepas nie kena ganti perkataan jangan tu kepada perkataan lain plak...contohnya....Tolong
senyap Abang,,,berbanding Jangan bising bang..

Dlm Islam sendiripun menggalakkan kita ibubapa bercakap2/berdoa dgn anak2 
ketika mrk dlm proses nak tidur sbb pada ketika itulah di antara waktu2 doa dimakbulkan.

Jom kita besar kan anak2 kita menjadi org yg bijak and soleh/solehah..

Kawan2 sape yg ada method lain or dh cuba share la kat sini jgk ye..

Semoga Allah memberkati segala usaha kita dalam membesarkan anak-anak yg berkualiti dalam apa jua bidang yang mereka akan ceburi kelak.

Amin.

Love,

Fiza